I find this dilemma rather common for younger couples, probably mid or late 30s and younger.

Usually one reports, “falling out of love” and is truly disturbed by
this shift. He/she (and this is not merely a female problem!) wants to
“recapture” those feelings.

This person has found a “significant other” who has stirred those dormant feelings and this person once again “feels in love.”

They are determined not to “settle” for a less than an ideal relationship, which means, of course, feeling the love feelings.

Here are some Key Points for this kind of affair. (The 6 others are outlined in my E-book.)

1. Unfortunately, our culture (movies, songs, romance novels, soap
operas, romance comedies) teaches us that this is how it’s supposed to
be. “Falling in love” is the norm – the implication being, that if it
doesn’t happen, or if it goes away, something is wrong – with you, your
spouse or the marriage. A good relationship must first unlearn a great
deal.

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