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 02:45 | 26/Jun/2008 | 1 Comment(s)
You May Be In Love If

One of the most common human experiences that two
or more (depending on how ambitious you are) people can share is love.
But, it’s not always easy to tell if you are in “like”, “lust” or full
blown, forever loving. With that in mind, I’ve created this list of
signs that you may be crazy in love!
1. If you’ve ever stared
deeply into the eyes of your significant other for more than 10 seconds
without cracking up hysterically … you may be in love.

2. If
every person in your life tells you that she/he’s no good and you’re
mailman, pharmacist and local news station agrees, yet you think they
are “just jealous” … you may be in love.

3. Guys: if you’ve
taken the pictures of the other women in you’re life off the walls,
like the Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Edition posters,.............................

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 01:18 | 30/May/2008 | 1 Comment(s)
Top 10 Ideas To Revive a Fizzling Relationship


Love is exciting, and when a relationship is new, almost everything you do together is fresh and alive, and keeps
you enthralled. Then time begins to pass, and while the
love is still there, the relationship may have lost some of
its sparkle, whether it"s because you now have a family
or not. Here are some of the top 10 ideas to revive a
fizzling relationship that might just put some of the
bubble back into the champagne of your life.

1. Do something unexpected. Send your partner
flowers at work. That applies to men, too! Or take them
out for dinner on a weeknight.
2. What lit your fire to start with? Strike the match
again, by duplicating that initial moment you fell in love
with your partner, and be sure to tell them why you"ve
created this just for them.

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 01:45 | 17/May/2008 | 7 Comment(s)
The Best Way to Pick Up a Girl

You see her across the room. Ah, so attractive. But nobody to 
introduce her to you. "Ah, I'll do a James Bond on her," you 
think. Now what was Bond's first words to Pussy Galore? "I 
must be dreaming." No, that won't work. How about singing 
"Underneath the Mango Tree" to her as Bond did to Honey Rider 
in "Dr. No". Ah? No!

Well, what's left? You'll just have to go up and talk to her, 
if it's a situation where you won't see her again. But it's 
always safe to assume that she has a boyfriend that can squeeze 
the stuffings out of a gold ball. That aside, take a chance 
and make polite conversation. What's the worst that can happen. 
She says, "I'm sorry, I'm not available." and you save the 
time and money of a date with her. Like George Burns says, 
"When a beautiful woman says "no" to me, it's a relief.

 

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 10:43 | 8/May/2008 | 5 Comment(s)
Soulmate Connection

We know there are magical signs once we meet our soulmates
face to face. Expect it to be not ordinary. Imagine a

fairy-tale coming alive. Most certainly, there would be

sparks flying, butterflies in the stomach, stuttered

sentences, ease of communication, physical attractions,

love-at-first-sights, answered prayers, love remembered from

dreams; in other words, a soulmate connection.

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 17:02 | 5/May/2008 | 2 Comment(s)
Sign of Affair: I Fell Out of Love...and just love being in love

If there is one front-and-forward excuse for infidelity it is: " I fell out of love."
This
usually means: I no longer feel sexually attracted to you (I'm sexually
attracted to someone else, for now, at least.) Or, I need to spice my
life with giddy emotional highs and intrigue every so often.

Infidelity has different faces...and different signs and patterns.

Did
you know there are 7 different kinds of affairs? Well, there may be
more, but after a couple decades of clinical work and research, I've
identified 7.

And, if you look carefully, you will find that
each form of infidelity carries different signs and markers. Know those
specific signs of infidelity and you can save yourself much grief.

One kind of affair I write about in my E-book is called, "I Fell out of Love...and just love being in love."

Here are some signs and patterns you can expect in this kind of affair:

1.
Hang on to your seat. This may be some ride, much like a thrill ride at
an amusement park. There will likely be many ups and downs, spiced with
dramatic flair. Watching your spouse go

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 11:26 | 13/Apr/2008 | 5 Comment(s)
Sensations Of A Kiss


Despite the relative tastelessness of kisses, they are usually referred to as
sweet. Tasting of wine, strawberries and honey are some of the most common

descriptions of lover’s kisses, although some poets are more creative. For

example, The Song of Songs says, "Thy lips drip as the honeycomb, my spouse:

Honey and milk are under thy tongue."


The feeling of a kiss is also described in a multitude of ways, The pounding of

the heart, quivering of the limbs, pain in the chest and quickening of the

breath are some examples of this.

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 01:44 | 12/Apr/2008 | 5 Comment(s)
Relationship Advice

When people seek relationship advice from a trusted friendor family member, it is most likely a waste of time, says
relationship author Justin Luyt.

"We ask for relationship advice often when we feel we do not have
the answers to our relationship challenges," Luyt says. "We grasp
for external wisdom, with the false belief that we do not know
the answers, but if we are being authentic to ourselves, we have
those answers."

Luyt recently published The Spirit of Romance, a book that offers
readers practical relationship advice and uses interactive
planning tools to not just change thoughts, but feelings and
behavior, too. Using the term "Spirit", Luyt defines the inner
source people must acknowledge before looking honestly inside
themselves instead of seeking relationship advice from others.

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 22:46 | 7/Apr/2008 | 1 Comment(s)
I fell out of love --- Fidelity Excuse

I find this dilemma rather common for younger couples, probably mid or late 30s and younger.


Usually one reports, “falling out of love” and is truly disturbed by
this shift. He/she (and this is not merely a female problem!) wants to
“recapture” those feelings.



This person has found a “significant other” who has stirred those dormant feelings and this person once again “feels in love.”



They are determined not to “settle” for a less than an ideal relationship, which means, of course, feeling the love feelings.



Here are some Key Points for this kind of affair. (The 6 others are outlined in my E-book.)



1. Unfortunately, our culture (movies, songs, romance novels, soap
operas, romance comedies) teaches us that this is how it’s supposed to
be. “Falling in love” is the norm – the implication being, that if it
doesn’t happen, or if it goes away, something is wrong – with you, your
spouse or the marriage. A good relationship must first unlearn a great
deal.


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 00:58 | 7/Apr/2008 | 2 Comment(s)
Use Brain to Seduce Woman

If you're one of those guys telling to yourself that AntonioBanderas might be a little prettier then you but again your IQ
beats
that of Einstein by an inch, than the next lines were written for you.
You have to know how to use your advantage against a two-digit IQ
macho-man and this is no easy deal. Some studies even say that
intelligence alone is actually not too sexy to most people. Therefore
it would be wiser to use intelligent ways to seduce a woman then just
act smart.
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 01:38 | 5/Apr/2008 | 4 Comment(s)
Reverse Gossip

Ordinarily we think of gossip and rumor-spreading as a
negative network of lies and false assumptions that destroys reputations and
ruins careers, but did you know that you can use gossip to your advantage when
trying to create rapport and build trust with someone? Yes, its true. Use that
very same negative network to make yourself appear more likable to another
person.
The Underlying Psychological Mechanisms
Involved


The American Psychologist Abraham Maslow came up with a
5-layered system of human needs that motivates people in life. One of those
layers of need is the need for self-esteem and the sense of belonging. As human
beings, we not only need to feel good about ourselves, but we also require
confirmation and feedback from others on how they perceive us. Negative feedback
poses a risk to our own self-esteem and therefore it creates conflict because we
strive to protect our self-esteem.
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